Major Bulleted points of Love
- Love is a very strong emotion.
- Let alone love, if it was something genuine even a bit, let's just admit that it stays with you. It stays there, right in the soft corner of your heart.
- You still have something. Maybe you don't but you still care. You smile when you see him happy. He crosses your mind every time you raise your hands to pray. You feel good seeing him grow.
- You just learn to care, without showing. You just learn to pray, without him knowing.
- Love is a mixture of patience, understanding, respect, honesty, Intimacy, kiss on forehead, Priorities, accepting flows and it's not a one day process because it comes with time.
Efforts for Stronger Love each passing day
- Respect- A key to any relationship. Love is nothing without respect. Never in 30 years has he shouted at her or abused her. There have been numerous fights but never did he disrespect her. How cool is seems hearing? Do it from today onwards.
- Trust- He trusted her with whole heart. And never did she chose someone else over nerdy him.
- Efforts- Its necessary after a point.
- Communication- They never sleep without solving their fights. They are transparent about their feelings. Her tears are too precious for him, so he made sure that he wasn't the reason for it.
What to do if you fall in love , other person is loosing interest in you
- Most of the times when it's happening, you can avoid it simply by letting the other person know, it happens in all relationships, at one point it seems like the spark is gone, but when efforts is made from both sides, a good relationship is possible, a more strengthened one.
- You probably annoyed him by texting all the time.Give him time and a sense of realization when you are not texting and he miss you.
- It was always you who was sending the first message, so there was a feeling that he is talking because of pity or he is bored. Do take this into account and try to know from other way round.
- To fall in love is very easy, staying in love is a challenge , so try to be positive as much as possible. Again saying, Falling in love is easy, but staying in love is difficult.. Efforts are needed at every step !
- Your straight forward talks which he found impressive is now hurting him, then let her speak if she wants to. Let the silence a place and also your presence a meaningful even in her life.
Why do we fall out of love?
- We fall out from love because we don't know how to put efforts, how to love a person not his status and money etc .
- We don't know consistency is sometimes boring but it always have some worth in end.
You're Fighting All the Time
One of the main reasons why people fall out of love is that they just can't seem to agree with one another on anything. Whether it's larger issues such as shared values and life choices to smaller issues such as where to go for dinner, you and your partner simply can't come to an agreement. And when there's no common ground between the two of you, your mindsets are diametrically opposed to one another, and you're bickering the majority of the time that you spend together, it's not unusual that your loving feelings for this person would change. Even though you may care about him or her, truly loving this person can be challenging when you no longer see eye to eye.
Your Relationship Has Been Tested
An additional reason why people fall out of love is that they've faced hardships and difficulties that have strained their relationship with one another. For example, if you're dealing with the loss of a job or the loss of a family member, these emotional burdens can end up shaking the bonds that tie you and your partner together. In some instances, couples fall out of love because they just can't seem to weather the storm together as a team. And these kind of financial and emotional strains end up breaking their connection and ending the love between the two of them.
You Feel Unappreciated
One of the key reasons why people fall out of love is that they don't feel appreciated, respected, or valued in their relationship. For instance, if your partner no longer compliments you, shows any gratitude, or even acknowledges your accomplishments or work, it can be hard to feel truly loved.
Taken granted
- Nowadays, people love mysteries and when two people started walking on a road of relationship they started their journey with one common point. At that common point, they are complete strangers to each other.
- They have created an imaginary world in their minds that everything would be fine in that journey. But when they know each there was a gap between them. A gap of thoughts and a gap of mindset and a gap of approach and if they were unable to fill that gap they fall out of love.
- They realize one person is far behind/away from him/her And as a result, they fall out of love.
When we departed of love ones
- You still have something. Maybe you don't but you still care. You smile when you see him happy. He crosses your mind every time you raise your hands to pray. You feel good seeing him grow.
- You just learn to care, without showing. You just learn to pray, without him knowing.
- At last, we healed from that, we no longer wait for his texts or check upon him but somewhere we miss those moments.
- If any negative thought comes about him thereafter, please turn away from that thought. He don't worth being remember in any way. You time is precious , utilize it . Remember, peace is more important than hate.
- And even if this is not enough to get rid of negative thought, just swear to God, there will be payback to him, the same way he did to you.
- Generally, the void in your heart is still there but it doesn't crave to be filled anymore.
What to do if you didn't fall in love yet
- If you never fall out of love, you just learn to stay away from it.
- Don't attach yourself with others too much, circumstances isn't under your control, so u have to be ready when life just go upside down.